Dear readers,
In the world of elegance, there is a subtle yet deeply meaningful distinction between being elegant and appearing elegant.
While both can coexist, understanding their differences helps us better appreciate what true elegance means.
APPEARING ELEGANT : THE BEAUTY OF PRESENTATION
Appearing elegant is directly linked to outward presentation. It’s the perfectly tailored suit, the flawless dress, the neatly styled hair, and carefully chosen accessories. It’s the art of showing sophistication through appearance, whether at a formal event, a wedding, or an important meeting.
This kind of elegance is often temporary and adaptable. It depends on the occasion and can be changed in minutes with a new outfit or a small detail. While it’s impressive and noticeable, appearing elegant is just one layer of true elegance.
BEING ELEGANT: THE ESSENCE THAT LASTS
Being elegant goes much deeper. It’s a state of mind, a way of living, and how you connect with the world. It’s reflected in how you treat others, how you communicate, your daily choices, and the energy you share, even in the simplest moments.
While appearing elegant is temporary, being elegant is lasting. It reflects your essence, shaped by values like respect, authenticity, and balance. When you are elegant, your posture and actions speak for themselves, even without words.
ELEGANCE COMES FROM WITHIN
We all have a unique essence, and elegance is simply a reflection of our inner self shown outwardly. Just like the body shows signs of inner health or illness, true elegance can only flourish from within.
This idea aligns with the book Secrets of the Millionaire Mind, which explains that external changes always start with internal transformations. To cultivate true elegance, you must begin with self-awareness, self-care, and a genuine commitment to becoming the best version of yourself.
ELEGANCE IN WEDDINGS AND LUXURY EVENTS
In the world of weddings and luxury events, this distinction is crucial.
As a photographer, I have the privilege of capturing moments where being and appearing elegant come together.
It’s when the sparkle of an eye, the grace of a gesture, or the authenticity of a smile meet the sophistication of carefully chosen outfits and decor.
These moments reveal the unique essence of each person and show that true elegance goes beyond appearances.
It is timeless, authentic, and deeply inspiring.
Credits: Photography: Maria Rão